Someone please update me on this whole young dating thing. Is it just me ??? Am I old fashion???? Have to many morals ( yes, hard to believe) or just plain old?????
These young people ( guys & girls) date , hook up, breakup next day , go on Tinder , Match. Com, plenty of fish, dating sites. Isn’t it just pretty much like continuous one night stands. Why does it bug me ? Maybe because it doesn’t bother them???
I lecture my kids daily, about it all , safe sex, crazy girls, players, head cases, everything its an open book at our house. I also don’t want them to be the crazy guy, player, or head case.
I get it. Your single and want to mingle. Your young and want to have fun. But you just meet someone , spend the night , then go out the next night with someone else. I guess I was thinking about the girls. But they are just as bad, they don’t care, I guess you can call it friends with benefits. But are they even friends yet??? The best is I said. So how was your date ???
Him……Oh it was great, she’s super cool, . really hot, either in College, or sweet job.
Me…. so are you going to see her again????
Him….I don’t know??? ( with a I don’t give a shit attitude) maybe!
Me….. 🤔your a player and I don’t like it😡
Main mate pipes in…… Jen, mind your own business
Me….. if you live in the castle then it’s my business 👍🏻
I realize that this is the normal for a lot of young 20 year olds. And it’s not like I want him in a relationship if he doesn’t want to be in one. He’s busy getting his life in order, making money, getting a business going. He’s traveled a ton. As he puts it… Nothing to hold him back.
When the right girl comes along it will all change! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
After talking to others about similar situations, I guess I’ll just mind my own business. But I will laugh sharing this recent story.
The other night someone ( not mentioning any names 🤣) was ” hanging out with a new friend. I actually went to bed. We are all adults in the castle, I don’t babysit my adult children. Well , the mainmate was at a football party and came home late , got on his pajamas and retreated to the ” mates living room ” seeing a mate laying on the couch he proceeded to sit in the recliner and chat with him for a few, minutes later he’s back in our bedroom telling me that there is some chick laying on the couch . Yes, I already knew they were watching a movie. He’s like you could have warned me, I’m walking around the house in my boxers 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, it was pretty funny at the time. Nothing crazy was going down on the couch. But I could visualize the whole scene! Lol