IMG_0648Someone please update me on this whole young dating thing. Is it just me ??? Am I old fashion???? Have to many morals ( yes, hard to believe) or just plain old?????

These young people ( guys & girls) date , hook up, breakup next day , go on Tinder , Match. Com, plenty of fish, dating sites. Isn’t it just pretty much like continuous one night stands. Why does it bug me ? Maybe because it doesn’t bother them???

I lecture my kids daily, about it all , safe sex, crazy girls, players, head cases, everything its an open book at our house. I also don’t want them to be the crazy guy, player, or head case.

I get it. Your single and want to mingle. Your young and want to have fun. But you just meet someone , spend the night , then go out the next night with someone else. I guess I was thinking about the girls. But they are just as bad, they don’t care, Β I guess you can call it friends with benefits. But are they even friends yet??? The best is I said. So how was your date ???

Him……Oh it was great, she’s super cool, . really hot, either in College, or sweet job.

Me…. so are you going to see her again????

Him….I don’t know??? ( with a I don’t give a shit attitude) maybe!

Me….. πŸ€”your a player and I don’t like it😑

Main mate pipes in…… Jen, mind your own business

Me….. if you live in the castle then it’s my business πŸ‘πŸ»

I realize that this is the normal for a lot of young 20 year olds. And it’s not like I want him in a relationship if he doesn’t want to be in one. He’s busy getting his life in order, making money, getting a business going. He’s traveled a ton. As he puts it… Nothing to hold him back.

When the right girl comes along it will all change! πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»

After talking to others about similar situations, I guess I’ll just mind my own business. But I will laugh sharing this recent story.

The other night someone ( not mentioning any names 🀣) was ” hanging out with a new friend. I actually went to bed. We are all adults in the castle, I don’t babysit my adult children. Well , the mainmate was at a football party and came home late , got on his pajamas and retreated to the ” mates living room ” seeing a mate laying on the couch he proceeded to sit in the recliner and chat with him for a few, minutes later he’s back in our bedroom telling me that there is some chick laying on the couch . Yes, I already knew they were watching a movie. He’s like you could have warned me, I’m walking around the house in my boxers 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣, it was pretty funny at the time. Nothing crazy was going down on the couch. But I could visualize the whole scene! Lol

Dating ugh!!!!





One thought on “DATING/ HOOK-UP πŸ’‹

  1. jacquelinefey January 5, 2018 / 6:18 am

    Hmmm..I can remember you trying to hook me up with Jeff at a young age…I wasn’t into it.. And neither was he..Wow…taking me back. πŸ˜‚


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